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How to Rejoice Through Hard Times Big Idea: You can find comfort & consolation for you own brand of suffering. Intro.
- I have
never seen a golf course without hazards. They
are part of the game. Golfers peak of the
courses with the most
hazards as the most challenging, & they will travel a long way to
test
their skill against the most demanding 18 holes. Quote: Oliver Wendell Holmes – “If I had a formula for bypassing
trouble, I wouldn’t pass it around. I
wouldn’t be doing anyone a favor. Trouble creates a capacity to handle it.
Meet
it as a friend for you’ll see a lot of it & you had
better be on speaking terms with it.” u can find comfort & consolation for you own brand of suffering. 1. The Reason for Rejoicing (3-9) A. We must consider the positive - A living defense “hope”(3) We must remember that as long as
difficult as things are on earth. Nothing is the final chapter. The final chapter occurs in heaven.
Our final meeting is not with: The spouse who cheated on you; Parent who wasn't there-never cared; The former friend turned antagonist; The employer who fired you; The gossips defaming you; The family who disowned you due to your beliefs; The child who has bottomed out; The illnesses that hound you; The problems that pound you Quote:Jim Gray; Who minds the journey when the road leads home?” Hope is scarce without Christ. Skeptics say that hope is “a pathological
belief in
the occurrence of the impossible.” It is nothing more than mental fantasy It becomes wishful thinking I hope
I win the lottery, I hope everything works out okay, I hope my
child comes home someday What you’re going through is not the end of
the
story. You are experiencing the tough journey that
leads to
the right destination. B. We must consider our prosperity (4) a permanent dividend –“inheritance”
It is
a secure home in heaven. It is
reserved there under safekeeping
It
cannot be destroyed, defiled diminished or displaced. How
does that make you feel? Illus. Have you ever made a reservation at a hotel for a nonsmoking room with a guaranteed reservation number & you arrive late to find that they have given it to someone else? You give them the confirmation # and they punch endless keys on the computer, then they look up at you as though you just arrived from another planet. They cannot help you. You ask for the manager, who gives you the same look & says, “Sorry there must be some kind of mistake God won’t ask you for a #,
or your name. He’ll welcome you to your
reserved permanent inheritance. You’ll
have a permanent place with your name on the door! The
more difficult life is on earth, the better heaven seems. C. We must consider our protection (5) Our heavenly dwelling
We
will not be lost in the process of suffering.
Our
souls are divinely protected.
Quote:
James Moffat “God stands between you & all that menaces your hope
or
threatens your eternal welfare. The
protection here is entirely & directly the work of God.”
Two
key words: Accept & trust
Accept – the mystery of why –
Hardship, suffering, misfortune, or mistreatment. Don’t try to understand it, or explain
it, accept it! Trust – Put yourself in God’s
hands. Let Him by His power; protect
you form this very moment to the dawning of eternity. D. We must consider our potential (6-7) A special dependence “developing faith ” It is an indication of unconditional joy
It
doesn’t depend on the circumstances surrounding us.
It
comes in spite of our suffering, not because of it. We rejoice not because times are hard, but
rejoice
in spite of the fact that they are hard. The significance of trials. 1.
They are often directed They help to prove the genuiness of our faith They teach us humility – They reveal our own
helplessness.
2.
They
are difficult
We must not trivialize
someone else’s trials.
We tend to do this by telling
stories that reflect, “it’s
not as bad as what
I
endured, or someone else endured.
We must remember that
comparison does not comfort
It doesn’t console the parent
who has lost a child that
you have lost 2.
It doesn’t console the to
reel off verse after verse.
It doesn’t console to make
them pray or sing with you.
It does console if you
express your sympathy.
If you weep with
them. If you put your arm around them.
3. They are diverse
Many colored – we discussed
already - (polka dot comes
from this)
They are different like we
are different.
Something that would hardly
be a trial for you will be
overwhelming for someone else.
God offers special grace to
help with our sorrows.
Think
of the variety of trials as different temperature settings God uses in
our
lives
He raises the temperature to
burn off the dross
He raises the temperature to
temper us.
He raises the temperature to
soften us.
He raises the temperature to
fulfill His purpose in our
lives; namely to shine as gold.
That likeness ultimately is
what gives glory & praise
& honor to our Savior. E. We must consider our provision (8) an unseen Divinity Remember that the context is
suffering… He says Jesus is standing
beside us in the furnace – Even though we cannot see Him! Just like Shadrach, Meshach &
Abednego! Dan 3 We don’t have to see someone
to love them: A blind mother loves her
children even though she has not seen them. We don’t have to see someone
to believe in them: We believe in
Jesus, but we have never seen Him. Jn 20:29 Blessed are those who
believe, but
haven’t seen.
We sense Him
there in times of trial. F. We must consider our provision (9) A guaranteed deliverance This is how we can rejoice! Illus.
It’s not the same kind of guarantee that the airlines make for
guaranteed delivery. We had a flight
from Chicago to LA that was a nonstop.
Thanks to the airlines, we had only the clothes we had on our
backs, my
briefcase & Donna’s overnight bag.
We were attending the Free Church National conference. When we finally got our bags, the tags used
by the airlines read PHI instead of CHI. A couple of days later, the
bags
caught up to us. They stuck by their
slogan, ‘guaranteed arrival’; they just wouldn’t say where the arrival
would
be. Now you see people boarding planes
with large carry-ons to avoid the stress of absent luggage.
When
it comes to spiritual delivery, we never have to worry! God is guaranteeing
deliverance of our souls.
We
must remember to rejoice, because we are going to get there –
guaranteed! 2. The Reminder about Rejoicing
Only
Christ’s perspective can replace our resentment with rejoicing.
Our
perspective changes when we catch a glimpse of Christ’s purpose. Illus. In December of 1995, the Huizinga family in Grand Rapids, MI was rehearsing at church for the annual Christmas Festival of lights. While they rehearsed, their home burned to the ground. It was just another tragedy for the family, because 3 months earlier, Mrs. Huizinga’s best friend, Barb, who was a widow, died of cancer, leaving two children. The Huizingas took the two children, providing a good home for them. This was quite a bit for them to bear. The loss of their father & mother, & now their home. The family moved to Barb’s home, since it had not yet been sold. The following week, the neighbors organized a party to sift through the ruble, looking for anything of value. During the search they found the first sign of God’s involvement in their struggle. They found a piece of paper that miraculously survived the fire. It contained these words; “Contentment: Realizing that God has already provided everything we need for our present happiness. The Huizingas saw God refine them through this tragedy. Jesus is the central piece of the suffering’s
puzzle. If we fit Him into place, the
rest of the puzzle, no matter how complex, begins to make sense. Conclusion:
Only
what Christ has done for us can change us from spectators to
participants in
the drama of redemption.
The
scenes will be demanding. Some may be
tragic.
But
that is when we will understand the role that suffering plays in our
lives.
Only
then will we be able to tap into hope beyond our suffering.
Prayer:
Lord, mere words about hope & encouragement & purpose can
really fall
flat if things aren’t right in our lives. If we’re consumed by rage & resentment, somehow these words
seem
meaningless. But when our ears are
right, we hear with new ears. Then
rather than resisting these words, we appreciate them & we love You
for
them. Give us grace to match our
trials. Give us a sense of hope &
purpose beyond our pain. And give us
fresh assurance that we’re not alone, that your plan has not been
aborted
though our suffering intensifies. Help
those of us who are on our feet right now to maintain a compassion for
those
who are not. Give us a word of
encouragement for others living in a world of hurt. Let
us never forget that every jolt in this rugged journey from
earth to heaven is a reminder that we’re on the right road. I ask this in the compassionate name of the
Man of Sorrows who was acquainted with grief. Amen. |